22 Dec
Freeing Ourselves from the Ghosts of Christmas Past . . .
* I decided to completely rewrite and update an earlier post I had composed a couple of years ago.- Enjoy!
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Today’s article begins with a personal message I received from a Chabad acquaintance. The actual letter was a copy of a communiqué that originated from the Lubavitch Headquarters; the letter reminds the Hasidim how they ought to conduct themselves on Christmas Eve.
- December 25th is universally celebrated by non-Jews as the birthday of that person[1] upon whom a dominant non-Jewish religion was founded and who had the Halachic status as a Jew who lures other Jews to idol-worship. A spirit of impurity therefore prevails on that day. (Additionally, there was a period when members of that religion used to celebrate this eve by attacking Jews, which led to an enactment against keeping the Yeshivas open during the eve of Dec 25th).
The letter also quoted some comments expressed by the Friediker (Previous) Rebbe of Lubavitch, R. Yosef Yitzchak Schnersohn and his son-in-law, R. Menachem Mendel Schnersohn:
- The Previous Lubavitcher Rebbe adds, “It is our custom to refrain from studying Torah on Nitel Nacht until midnight. The reason, as the Previous Rebbe heard from his father, the Rebbe RaShaB (Rabbi Shalom Dov Baer Schnersohn, a.k.a., the 5th Lubavitcher Rebbe), is so that one will not add spiritual vitality to that person [Jesus], and those who presently follow his views [i.e., Christians everywhere]. The Previous Lubavitcher Rebbe (i.e., Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schnersohn, the 6th Rebbe) quotes his father in the popular Hayom Yom (Teves 17), ‘I am not fond of those students who begrudge these eight hours and cannot tear themselves away from Torah study!’”[2]
Many Jews and Christians probably find this custom interesting but very strange–and for good reason!! Actually, even many Haredi Jews find the custom dubious and weird; for them, time is of the essence, and nobody should squander what precious time one has in this world pursuing trivial matters, when one ought to be studying God’s Torah instead! For them, “Nitel” is “bitul,” (a pure waste of time).
- The Origins of Nitel Nacht
The origin of Nitel Nacht in modern rabbinic literature is one of the more fascinating chapters of Jewish history and folklore. To begin with, this is a custom that exists only among Hasidim. Most Haredi communities, like the Lithuanian and Sephardic communities, generally disregard this custom; for them, the study of Torah is of primary importance.[3] R. Moshe Sternbuch correctly observes that the custom was unknown in Lithuania and it is only a custom among the Hasidim. One of the greatest Lithuanian luminaries of the 20th century, R. Avraham Yeshaya Karelitz, (1878-1953) a.k.a., “Chazon Ish” did not discontinue his practice of studying Torah “Nitel Nacht,” and said that it was forbidden to waste time from learning on this night and he criticized those who did not learn on that night.[4] Some Hassidic Jews, likewise won’t not study Torah on New Year’s Eve either for the same reason. Some of my old Litvak friends in the Litvisher yeshivas used to tell me that Hasidim will do just about anything not to study Torah! Behind every criticism is often a grain of truth . . . Oy, I think I have the soul of a Litvak!
Of course, the time of Nitel Nacht will vary depending whether one is a Greek Orthodox Christian or not, for they celebrate the holiday on January 6th.
The earliest references to Nitel Nacht go back to the 17th century; it was first mentioned by the Moravian scholar, R. Yair Chaim Bachrach (1638-1702).[5] Some scholars think that the famous Maharsha (R. Samuel Eides observed the day by the late 16th century.[6]
- The Meaning of “Nitel”
The etymology of the actual name, “Nitel,” actually comes from the Latin, “Natalis,” or, “Nativity Night.” It is truly ironic that 99% of all the Hassidic Jews follow this observance, haven’t the foggiest idea that Nitel Nacht means “Nativity Night.” It is also possible that Nitel Nacht may be a corruption of the Latin dies natalis, “birthday,” i.e., the “birthday” of Jesus.[7]
- Should Nitel Nacht be observed today?
On the one hand, the custom serves to remind us of an era when Jewish and Christian relations were strained and hostile. I once had a congregant who lived to be 95; she survived the Russian Revolution by hiding under a house, where the sewage was stored. With the sound of demonic laughter, a Cossack crushed her baby brother’s skull with his boot, while drinking his vodka. She remained traumatized by her experience-throughout her life. I imagine that the Schnersohn family also witnessed similar events in their lives as well and suffered from the lingering effects of these traumatic memories. No wonder the Jews of Lubavitch felt so nervous around Christmas season! Who could blame them? Remember “Fiddler on the Roof”? Sholom Aleichem merely hinted about this awful social reality. Undoubtedly, the world that created Nitel Nacht was filled with violence, hatred, and intolerance.
But that was then . . .
Fortunately, this is not the case anymore the case for Jews who live in Western countries. It’s time to leave the ghetto behind us; it’s time to exorcize the hurtred (pardon the neologism) and bitterness we have carried for a long time.
As a rabbi, whenever I see Jews show intolerance and bigotry toward non-Jews–whoever they may be–I get religiously offended. No religion is immune to the dangers of promoting religious prejudice; or as they say, “A pig with lipstick is still a pig.” Prejudice and intolerance should not be quietly accepted as if it is normal–because it’s not!
Yet, today, the religious intolerance seems to emanate more from Haredi Jews!? Aside from their intolerance toward other branches of Judaism and their endorsement of sexism, in Jerusalem, Haredi Jews often spit on the Greek Orthodox clergy of Jerusalem; in addition, a number of Hassidic Jews have the custom of spitting whenever walking by a church. Were this just an isolated case, one individual’s brazen act of spitting would hardly make the news, but it is a daily occurrence that has brought considerable embarrassment to Israel and to Jews all over the world. Others, still, will not even shake hands with a member of the Christian clergy. I actually saw this happen in Rock Island, when the Habad rabbi refused to shake hands with the local Monsignor, who was attending a Yom HaShoah community observance. To the Hassidic rabbi’s credit, he did eventually apologize—a year later.
On the other hand, Rabbi Shmuel Boteach of Chabad has just recently written a brand new book, “Kosher Jesus,” where he actually praises Jesus as a 1st century Jewish teacher! I doubt the late Rebbe would have approved of his followers extolling the greatness of Jesus as a Jewish sage, but some people are attempting to change some of the old world attitudes. If anything, Hassidic followers of Chabad, Satmar, Bratzlav and others must be saying a collective, ‘Oy vei!” as his work goes to print next month. Kudos go to Rabbi Boteach! I doubt the Rebbe would have approved of such a book.
“The Jewish Annotated New Testament” was just released. This volume is a study edition of the NSRV translation of the New Testament with commentary and essays by Jewish Biblical scholars (including Jewish New Testament scholars) such as Marc Zvi Brettler, Amy-Jill Levine, Daniel Boyarin, and Mark Nanos. The scholars attempt to understand the NT from a respectful Jewish perspective. Such a work would hardly have been possible a few centuries ago. Fortunately, countless numbers of Christian scholars are now studying Talmud and other Judaic texts to better understand the life of Jesus as a Jew.
Yes, the world is changing.
Should Nitel Nacht be observed today? Not unless you wish to offend your Christian neighbors. While there are number of customs that originated during the most depraved times of medieval history, it behooves us to let go of our medieval attitudes.
As modern Jews, it behooves us to cultivate a relationship with our Christian neighbors and friends based on the principle of mutual respect. Jewish leaders often insist that Christianity purge itself of its anti-Semitic attitudes, and this is necessary for the sake of all our sanity. As Jews, we have to do our part in getting rid of our own dysfunctional attitudes. Would it not be wonderful to see Haredi and Hassidic Jews seize the initiative and greet the Christian clergy of Jerusalem with a heartfelt, “Good morning, Fr. So-and-so . . .” A simple greeting would go a long way in bettering our relations. Spitting, on the other hand, will only create more anti-Semitism.
Certain customs really should have been discarded long ago in the dustbin of history. Fortunately, most Jews today have long historically embraced this change in attitude–except for a handful of Hassidic Jews in Brooklyn and in Israel who are still desperately clinging on to the ghosts of Christmas past. Unfortunately, many fundamentalists and radicals of all the Western faiths are still holding on to the negative and hateful caricatures of the Other that continue to be drummed into the minds of young impressionable children at home, church, synagogues, mosques, and schools.
Today, when we have a holiday celebration like Christmas and New Years, people generally have a family get-together, watch some football and enjoy their dinners, exchanging gifts. However, several centuries ago, people used to look for a different kind of entertainment; they would attack Jews on Christmas or Easter. The world was a very different kind of place. Let us do our part and make sure our children never have to grow up in a religiously intolerant community again.
Notes:
[1] The Rabbis of Lubavitch have never referred to Jesus by name, but always through the pejorative designation of, “that man.” In biblical and rabbinic literature, to be without a name is to be condemned to virtual non-existence.
[2] Anonymous, HaMaaseh Hu HaIkar (Brooklyn, NY: 2006), 10-11.
[3] See R. Ovadiah Yosef, Responsa Yabia Omer vol. 7 Yoreh Deah #20.
[4] Responsa Teshuvot Ve-Hanhagot 1:551.
[5] Mekor Chaim of the Chavat Yair OH:155.
[6] Cf. Benyamin Cohen, 2009-12-23). “Holy Night: The little-known Jewish holiday of Christmas Eve. Seriously.”. Slate. http://www.slate.com/id/2238708/. See also Shahar Ilan, “Unholy Night” (Ha’aretz, Dec. 24th, 2009) http://failedmessiah.typepad.com/failed_messiahcom/2009/12/for-hasidim-tonight-is-unholy-night-567.html.
[7] Curiously, but erroneously, Rabbi M. M. Schnersohn attempts to provide a Hebraic basis for the word’s etymology, “The word nitel implies ‘lack,’ or possibly ‘suspended.’ (Letter dated 9th Kislev 5735, printed in Likutei Sichot Bereshit, Vol.15, 554). Actually, in Latin, natal means “born,” i.e., “the time of birth.” “Nativity,” derives from O.Fr. nativité “birth” (12c.), from L.L. nativitatem (nom. nativitas) “birth,” from L. nativus, “born, native.”
Posted by admin on 22.12.11 at 9:44 pm
Below are some postings that came to me:
Posted by joseph on 25.12.09 at 1:09 am edit
Good post…
1)the photo of the Lubavitcher rebbe playing chess was not Nitel
http://www.chabad.org/blogs/blog_cdo/aid/1074723/jewish/Playing-Chess-to-Win.htm
2)Maimonidies uses very strong language about Christianity and Islam calling Mohammed the insane one and justifies Killing Jesus.
3)please post the source for this statement “Some rabbis of the Chabad Hassidic movement warn their followers that wild dogs would attack any Jew who “studies Torah” on Christmas Eve.”
Posted by admin on 22.12.11 at 9:44 pm
Here is a comment I received from Professor Marvin Wilson this evening:
Thank you so very much for sending me a copy of your just posted piece on Nitel Nacht. I have just read your article on Christmas Eve. I must say this is a most fascinating and insightful article and I predict it will garner considerable reaction (mostly positive) from Jews and Christians.
You are courageous and honest to present this material for circulation. It is always more comfortable to let “ a sleeping dogs lie” (pun intended). You have spoken emet. I hope the folks at 770 Eastern Parkway get to read this.
If each of our communities could clean up their own act first, this would be a major step toward the understanding, respect and reconciliation we need yet to achieve in interfaith relations today. Thank you for raising the bar of interfaith integrity another notch . Yasher kohhakhah!
Marv
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Posted by Yochanan Lavie on 22.12.11 at 9:44 pm
I prefer Christmas presents to Christmas past (LOL).
Chareidim also spit on Jewish women with a different religious orientation, even Modern Orthodox girls. To get them to stop spitting on Christians is unfortunately utopian. They need to do time in that yeshiva known as Bet Sohar.